November is upon us, and the Soul Matters theme for the month is a pertinent one: generosity. This is also the first of a number of monthly themes taken from the proposed Article II revision which names a set of core values for Unitarian Universalist faith. Our Soul Matters and worship themes for the next several months will be taken from this set of values.
Generosity is a cornerstone of our faith. It is an expression of our commitment to the inherent worth and dignity of every person and our belief in the interdependent web of all existence. It is a testament to our shared values of compassion, justice, and equity. A congregation’s generosity is evident in the many ways we support each other and our wider community. Whether it’s through our social justice initiatives, our support for local charities, or the kindness and compassion we extend to each other, our generosity is a powerful force for good.
However, as we strive to live out our values, it’s important to reflect on the nature of our generosity and the impacts, however unintended they may be. The book “Toxic Charity” by Robert D. Lupton offers valuable insights on this topic. Lupton argues that while well-intentioned, certain forms of charity can inadvertently harm those they aim to help, creating dependency rather than empowerment.
As Unitarian Universalists, we are called to a generosity that empowers, that respects the inherent worth and dignity of every person, and that fosters equity and justice. This means being mindful of how we give, ensuring that our generosity supports self-sufficiency and dignity, rather than fostering dependency. It also means recognizing that generosity is not just about giving material aid. It’s about sharing our time, our talents, and our presence. It’s about building relationships based on mutual respect and understanding. It’s about working together to create a more just and compassionate world.
As we navigate our journey of faith, let us strive to embody a generosity that empowers and uplifts. Let us remember that true generosity is not about giving from our excess, but about sharing from our substance. It’s not about solving problems for others, but about working with them to create solutions.
With blessings for our journey,
Rev. Michelle